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oldschool1967

oldschool1967

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Im venting, what Im talking about is for example:

My ex wife used to love to do this to me. I would bust ass at work all week, get all sorts of honey do shit done at home. Then would come a Sunday, my day to do whatever the fuck I want day.
I would think I had everything done and set.
I would sit my ass on the couch and turn on the TV and try and attempt to enjoy some football.
It never failed, that assrag would come in and start in on me about some project or something she had whooped up that day and complain that because I was enjoying some downtime and a football game and not helping her with her last minute whatever that she decided to do that day, That I was a lazy ass.
Then the rest of the day and week I would have to hear all this blah blah blah bitching and moaning 'if only I had helped it would be done' kind of thing.
A perfect example was her son (whom she spoiled miserably) decided that he wanted a new basketball goal in the driveway.
I was allready sitting there watching the game when she left to go get this thing (but I had no clue they were doing this).
By halftime she has got the thing out of the box and she and he have attempted to put this thing together without reading the fuckin instructions.

Then she comes in and asks me to help. I go out there and the thing is all over the place and they have snapped peices together that will not come back apart and they have done so improperly basically rendering the thing inoperable to be put up.
So...we didnt have any of the tools we would need to fix it, so Jr starts to pout.
I go back inside, and watch the game after explaining that she would need a specific type of drill and drill bit to make a new hole for this fastener ( an all day project ).
So all I heard the rest of that day and nite and week, was how I couldnt be relied upon for shit!

It was as if she was going to make me pay for my resolve.
When in reality if she wanted my help she should have said so before they started putting the thing together...then after she fucks the thing up now Im supposed to have a snap answer and solution to fix it in less than 10 minutes??

She got herself into some last minute thing to endulge her kid, when I try to help its beyond anything I could do at the moment yet I have to pay and pay that week with this song and dance about how unreliable I was??

And mind you this idiot was going behind my back from the begining of the relationship with a married man, and Im the unreliable one? BWahahahahaahahaa!

Im sorry yes I am the 1%. I have earned the right to complain about that idiot.

Most men genetically have no equivalent to this end and is why we end up opting for death over remaining alive and hearing this non stop bitching.

i hear ya bro! my ex used to pound on the garage door, in the middle of my session, ''theres 4 hours early o.t.'' i was the idiot who would stop! shes now scamming old guys and fatter than ever!!lmao!!
 
oldschool1967

oldschool1967

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I pretty much told my husband to FUCK OFF when I played hockey, I was gone all the time. I'm lucky he didn't throw my stuff out on the front lawn. I've done my best to keep some perspective about my training, I do find that compromise and communication go a long way. He has learned that when I decide I'm going to do something (powerlifting/strongwoman) he might as well just let me do it. My training has led to my dream career (training others, working at a gym), and I am a much happier, stable person now than I used to be. So, we have had a few arguments about my training and competitions, but it worked out in the end.

i can relate all to well mm719, thank-you and never stop!!
 
oldschool1967

oldschool1967

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Some words of wisdom My friend, I've been lucky in all of this. But I agree you can't worship the Iron if your going to maintain a marriage, relationship either.

I will say if you truely love that person than be patient if there not understanding at the moment, Whenever you're in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude.

thank you shine! i just cant let anything or anyone get in my way, i love my wife dearly, she knows what i do, she is very aware of my, uhh, supplements ;)...just trying to balance, im too old to put my endeavors on hold.thanks bro!!
 
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oldschool1967

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i am so proud of most of you guys in here! there are some great words of advice and support from you guys!

i cant speak for all women but most of us just want to know that you care and often times we view that as the time you want to spend with us. i think that if the roles were reversed you would feel the same way. if she was working and gone all the time, wouldnt you be asking for a little time? afterall, isnt that why we are in relationships to begin with, to share our life with someone?! sharing generally means giving up something that is yours to the other person. in this case, a little time shouldnt be too much to ask. training will always be there, a good women wont.

thank-you for your point of view atw!! i have found what i had lost years ago, i have a wondefull wife, and i am under alot of pressure at the moment, but as with my whole life, lifting included, i will persevere!!
 
usa

usa

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I think my wife likes it when I hit the gym. She makes me take the kids. If the kids are with me she doesn't say a word. You just gotta know how to step around the situation.
 
NutNut

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AJ i was kidding to lighten the mood, arent you used to that yet?
 

ajdos

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AJ i was kidding to lighten the mood, arent you used to that yet?

Yeah I wasnt getting it, when it comes to my ex I get fuckin hyped up....I lose any sense of humor. Seven years of my life I wish I could get back lol.
 
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I've got 1 just like her, which is the reason i have full custody, crazy bitch.
 

ajdos

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ha! ha! ha! aj is a ranting-Nazi-Brotha from Anotha!
I come from a long line of 1/2 Greek and 1/2 Irish mutherfuckers with bad ass tempers and ill dispositions, it runs in the blood.
People thought I was on tren when I was 11 years old.
 

ajdos

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I've got 1 just like her, which is the reason i have full custody, crazy bitch.
Well I truly feel for you then, I can only hope you made your way out the door before she took too many years from you.

I wish I had stuck to my guns and left her the first time, would have saved me 5 years of time spent with a loser.
 
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