Just to clarify...and once again, thanks for the responses!
The frustrating thing about my situation is that for the past 3 years, I have been a lot of postie reinforcement as many of you have advised me to do and still, very little effort on her part. This is why I resorted to starting this thread. Kissing her to make her knees buckle and make her feel she is the most beautiful woman on earth, cooking meals, encouraging exercise and no negative talking. A few months ago, she FINALLY started going to the gym with me, but her efforts are futile. She really does not put much effort into her workouts, I get that at first, but come on, at some point you gotta put some ****ing effort into what your doing. Like I said, last year, she told me.....This is the worst I have ever looked..... I did not even go there and told her she was beautiful. HOPING for a different response such as a change in eating habits. NOPE, still eats like crap and she can not connect the dots....
Getting to the point where I"m gonna have to talk about this issue.
As far as making excuses, I"ve learned to work around my injuries, excuses are for losers. You can try and come up with an excuse why you can't do something, but if you want to succeed, you learn to work around your weaknesses, injuries and such. Champion mentality. Right now, I"m trying a way to have the same attitude and approach towards encouraging my wife to break the bad habits AND I"M FRUSTRATED because she continues to eat like crap and put little effort into working out, yet she continually complains about her weight
I have tried pretty much everything posted here in regards to postie encouragement and keeping my mouth shut about said concerns
I have found that in life, you can't make someone love you and you can't make someone want to get in good shape. They have to want it themselves.
Thanks again for the responses
Happy now ya little whiny bitch