has anyone told their significant other to fuck off because they interfere with...

[ajdos]

aj,

man it seems like you really loved your ex & she really hurt you. make sure you let go of all the frustration from that relationship so you can really enjoy that good woman. you'll know her because you can smell her as you think about her during the day, & she compliments you & who you fundamentally are. me & my wife took forever to get married, but after a decade of doing the long distance thing & finally being in the same city, the marriage was crystallized before the wedding. good luck man.

YES I did love her, past tense.

Like I said in some of my other more rant like posts, it wasnt the cheating that had me upset, I would have just left her had I caught her, it was the constant lies before during and after that she told me and guilt tripped me with to stay in the relationship that she knew 100% she didnt want.
I would rather be cheated on a million times than have wasted one minute longer in that relationship that she kept me in.

I tend to relive things when I go back in my mind, I dont just remember events but how I felt about them.
Its part of my heritage my parents and my sister do it too.

I have moved on to a better relationship and she and will be getting married and I take solace in the fact that crummy ex led me to my current gf who I am completely into.

 

[Jasthace]

Yes I did. After she complained about me buying protein powder.At the time I was working a lot of O/T at work to save up to take her to see her family again in Thailand...
That was the last straw.

 

[ajdos]

Yes I did. After she complained about me buying protein powder.At the time I was working a lot of O/T at work to save up to take her to see her family again in Thailand...
That was the last straw.

Boy I know that feeling...not exactly the same circumstance but nothing like busting your ass for some ungrateful person who only has their selfish needs at heart.

 

[deadweight]

hello brothers and sisters! just wondering if anyone believes as deeply as i do, in our precious sport? i have always told my dates,from day 1, do not ever fuck with my training regimen, period, or its over. I have went through numerous girlfriends who said 'i understand' then did nothing except fucking''where are you going''? how long you gonna be, whats this your taking...blah, blah, blah.. now, with overtime and gym time, my wife says we are growing apart? huh? i told her how it has to be, and here i am, missed back day today, but made it to work, told her i am going tomorrow, after an extra day of o.t., just venting people, but feel free to throw any comments in! thanks!!

Dude i have the same passion as u do for as long as i can rememeber...I will take what u said furture....My demise from my first wife was due to my passion with weightlifting..I told her one day...and my exact words was....I ONLY LOVE ONE THING IN THIS WORLD AND THAT IS MY WEIGHTS....That day i siad that i mean just that..It lead to my divorce from my first wife..Im re marriage now...My main workout is on sundays..I do this for a reason....To get a head start for the week...Its all a mentall game...U see...With that siad that pays a price...I cant go out on saturday nights because i get up real early to train...Wile all my friends go out and having a blast i stay home and rest to await my training...Its that serious...I made weightlifting first in my life...Everything eles takes a back seat...Why?...Its what i chose to do..Now is life worst this price?I dont know yet but in the end i will beable to answer that question but for now..Its my life...and im living it my way....No one that i know perosnaly can say i didnt live life doing what i wantted to do...My love affair with weights and everything that come with it is as stronger as a thousand gods put together...Maybe its all in vain ..Yeah,sure its all in vain but thats my devil and i embrace it with all i have in this stinken life..And nothing will change it except death...We all know emotions change and feelings change..None of it is certain but i have proven to myself that the emtions and feelings i have towards weightlifting will never die out...Many people have come and go..Its just a faze to them..they change and go on with there life...Not me...I am froever with my passion...A ture passion...dw

 

[tommyguns2]

I do not share your passion. Perhaps that's why I'll never have a nationally competitive physique. (that, and my crappy genetics).

 

[Littleguy]

My ex wife was a cunt. She never ceased to complain about my ass, I put up with a lot of shit from that hoar....she never endingly complained about my bodybuilding allthough she knew getting into the relationship what I was about, she was the one who bitched I woudnt marry her.
So when I did she never stfu and I found it to be a draining affair to get the idiot to give up pussy on a regular basis, so I went into full bodybuilding mode.
When we got seperated she gave me an ultimatum, quit bodybuilding and lifting to be a 'family man'.
My response was "guess its a divorce then"
I tried to remain amicable but something about finding emails on my computer (which we had shared) from her to her loverboy she had been fucking behind my back for 6 years was a little bit offensive...not too mention she was with other fuckos too, she had a thing for baseball players.
So I told her point blank "FUCK YOU -DONT EVER SPEAK TO ME AGAIN"
....and I never have. That dumb fucking cunt has never heard my voice again, not even a cough.
I have a good relationship with a new woman, and from what I hear she has gotten fat as fuck with a butt in the front and complains about the men who reject her on match.com.
Her own best friend even stopped talking to her...what a waste of life.
tsk tsk cottage cheez legs n all, guess maybe if the fuking whore worked out she might still look good.

LMFAO!!
Another eloquentAj post!

 

[JackD]

The only advice that I am going to add, is that relationships take constant communication, team work together, and a lot of times compromise. There always needs to be a balance, and like the gym we have to make time for that, but if we want a woman in our life then we need to make time for her as well. But any good woman will understand your passion and not take that away from you. She will compromise with you, any good woman will, but it will take work on your behalf, that's where the balance comes in. Women will always get emotional on subjects when they feel something is more important to you than they are. So treat her right and let her know she is always number one by making good time with her.

 

[BrotherIron]

I gotta say I'm lucky that my wife doesn't ask me questions like that but she's also a competitive athlete and so she understands I need to spend some (and I say some) time in the gym. I don't put it over her though. If she's having a bad day, than I'll stay home and do what I can to make sure it gets better for her. We even train at the same gym that way we spend as much time together as possible.

Like everyone said balance is key to a happy, long life. Whether or not you want to admit it, this is nothing more than a hobby unless you make you're living off of it. We do take it seriously and we put a lot of time and effort into out training but it should never supersede your relationship with your wife.

 

[newNimproved]

realized lately, im better off alone and single than deal with emotion. to each their own, i just cant love i think.

 

[Turbolag]

realized lately, im better off alone and single than deal with emotion. to each their own, i just cant love i think.

I don't think I can either.

I don't think I'm willing to put in the work either for a relationship to work.

 

[jhotsauce7]

My girl works part time and I made sure she found a job that has her workin when I'm lifting ... That way never any pressure to be somewhere else instead or to rush thru a workout ... This is my life ... It ain't gonna change