rolldice
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- Jul 13, 2011
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So my wife told me last week that she wanted me to leave. A little background here been together 10 years married 8. Have to boys 6 and 4. Im 35she is 38 and first marraige for both and only kids. We have had our ups and downs just like any other relationship. 2 years ago I cheated on her 4 months ago I caught her in a texting relationship with a guy I used to work with. We have gone though a bancruptcy, a miscarraige and a few deaths. Each time we made it through.
Then she says she is done. I left went to my parents. Since then we have been texting talking etc just like when we were together but every night I am at my parents. I know we need to make some changes in our relationship and I know I need to make some changes as a man a father and a husband but she needs to make some changes too.
I am willing to go to a marraige counseler or whatever it takes to try. SHe has been trying to decide if she is. Well after bringing home my oldest from baseball practice and helping get the kids ready for bed and saying my goodnights I went to my moms again last night. Got my love you goodnight texts and then my good moorning texts and phone call as she was taking the kids to school.
Then I called her after she dropped the kids off and we talked for a few until I told her we needed to figure out what we are going to do. I asnt going to continue like this either we are together or not. Either we are willing to give it everything or not. She got upset and we got off the phone. She then sent me a text saying it wasnt something she wanted to discuss while driving and she is mentally exhausted and to go ahead and get a lawyer. I told her if that is what we are going to do then fine. She responded we will talk about this later.
I responded that I am willing to be a better person a better father a better husband and a better couple and to try my hardest but if that wasnt enough I dont know what is.
Sorry for my rant and drama here but had to get this out there and hear some thoughts.
RD
Then she says she is done. I left went to my parents. Since then we have been texting talking etc just like when we were together but every night I am at my parents. I know we need to make some changes in our relationship and I know I need to make some changes as a man a father and a husband but she needs to make some changes too.
I am willing to go to a marraige counseler or whatever it takes to try. SHe has been trying to decide if she is. Well after bringing home my oldest from baseball practice and helping get the kids ready for bed and saying my goodnights I went to my moms again last night. Got my love you goodnight texts and then my good moorning texts and phone call as she was taking the kids to school.
Then I called her after she dropped the kids off and we talked for a few until I told her we needed to figure out what we are going to do. I asnt going to continue like this either we are together or not. Either we are willing to give it everything or not. She got upset and we got off the phone. She then sent me a text saying it wasnt something she wanted to discuss while driving and she is mentally exhausted and to go ahead and get a lawyer. I told her if that is what we are going to do then fine. She responded we will talk about this later.
I responded that I am willing to be a better person a better father a better husband and a better couple and to try my hardest but if that wasnt enough I dont know what is.
Sorry for my rant and drama here but had to get this out there and hear some thoughts.
RD