ok an update I ahve been trying to make this work and we went out v-day, a few other times and a weekend road trip with the boys. Our anniversary was March 1st, we went out to eat and she told me how happy she was being apart. WHich when she has the boys she is always calling me wanting me to go eat etc. So basically she enjoys the 3-4 days a week she doesnt have them or me around. I told her bullshit you are either coming home or we are done you have the weekend to decide. Needless to say going to the courthouse tomorrow and filling for divorce. I am sad, angry, happy and every other emotion you can think of. She is a selfish bitch who has had a free ride and a man at her beck and call for 6 months. Well no more.