@KyleB I didn't even want kids I put it off for years. I was finally presented with an ultimatum of sorts. I said if I must I want a boy. I had a girl, and at least for me having a daughter I discovered how freaking awesome Daddy daughter relationships can be. Forget a boy if I were able to have another I would hope for another daughter. Having a daughter has positively changed me in so many ways. My wife (I think she was having emotional issues at the time because this is going to sound selfish) has came to me crying and upset telling me how I would do anything for my daughter but if she, as in my wife asked me to do something I would take my sweet time or ignore it)