Thrawn
MuscleHead
- Jun 12, 2023
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So my daughter 9 only child. She is/was a daddy's girl all the way, actually she is like a mini me. She craves mental and physical challenges. Just so I'm clear she chooses to do this, she is not pressured at all. This next part is not to dote about her it is perspective. She is in the gifted program at school, loves math she is on high school level geometry, I was getting ready to teach statistics. She always wants to learn new things. She wanted to play chess. I showed her how. She joined chess club, signed her up for local open to public competition she came in 1st place. Last 5yrs We work out. Swim, bike, go to Water park, all the time.. Now, this past June she is not interested in anything above or me we barely talk now. I was expecting to have a fun summer, I'm bored out of my mind. I feel like a daycare employee. I having a difficult time relating or communicating with her(not sure if those are the best words) 3 things have changed 1. I suffered severe depression on some Adex at the start of summer, when I realized I stopped. 2. She does have a phone, had since Dec. It is remotely and heavily monitored and 3hrs a day limit. (If I could do it again I would never gotten her a fucking phone) 3. She has Been playing a lot of Minecraft (can't communicate with anyone online)
At what age do kids want nothing do to with parents?
Am I taking her growing up and changing interests to personal?
Am I over analyzing her changes.
I have no reason to think another adult is poisoning the well. I have a few more emotional feelings about the situation but can't think of ways to to put it into words.
She is not misbehaving, she does everything she is required to do.
There has been no change in relationship between her and her mother. Mother is not as involved/as active as we were. Mother really acts as hate to use the word parent, full time adult, gatekeeper, I know there is a more appropriate word, can't think of it.
At what age do kids want nothing do to with parents?
Am I taking her growing up and changing interests to personal?
Am I over analyzing her changes.
I have no reason to think another adult is poisoning the well. I have a few more emotional feelings about the situation but can't think of ways to to put it into words.
She is not misbehaving, she does everything she is required to do.
There has been no change in relationship between her and her mother. Mother is not as involved/as active as we were. Mother really acts as hate to use the word parent, full time adult, gatekeeper, I know there is a more appropriate word, can't think of it.