Jun 12, 2017 OK guys, do you believe that being muscular is that big of a deal to women? I mention this because I've noticed it to be harder to get women when one is muscular, and have even heard "dating coaches" mention this phenomenon. I've seen plenty of women with guys that have terrible physiques, and then break up and move on to another shabby looking guy. So, would you guys say that it matters that much to women (I'd say it doesn't) or not? Also, I am not suggesting that women be the main motivation for lifting; it should be done anyway regardless of the outside world's consequences.