Just because you are a nice guy doesn't mean you are a pushover poontang. I am a nice guy and my wife, family, and close friends would say that I have a huge heart, but if you met me in real life and you were a complete asshole, you'd get nowhere with me and you'd be lucky not to catch a severe ass-whuppin in the process.
Agree to disagree SuperG. You continue living life how you see fit to benefit yourself, and I'll continue to live my life how I see fit to benefit all those around me.