Good work and you're making good progress! I'll second the comments above about choosing your goals and moving toward them based on what you want for yourself. After all, guys can come and go and if you're doing it for yourself, you stick with it. Remember, it's a marathon, not a sprint, so make good lifestyle choices and stick with your training, and you'll continue to see the progress.
BTW, it's pretty tough for women to get really lean, so unless you're genetically gifted you're going to have to keep the diet relatively clean. Good luck!