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MuscleHead
- Jan 11, 2013
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so i have a good friend whose close with my whole circle of friends. he's also a business contact.
he is out of shape so i let him come be my training partner.
the problem is that it never ceases to amaze me how delusional a man can be.
1) SO many fat guys think of themselves as "big guys" and don't really understand that fat and strength aren't the same thing.
2) Also totally delusional as to how fat he is. he is like 235-240. he wants to get to 190 and thinks he'll be "cut" at that weight. but he's 37 and hasn't lifted a weight since sophomore year of college. he gets 3 solid reps of 185 after we've lifted together for about 7 weeks. that's not what ripped 190 looks like. he's a 165 pound dude under there.
3) he is not careful. if i add weight to a lift he WILL immediately try to add weight, regardless of how well he performed the previous weight. he gets pissy when i refuse to let him.
4) he is SUPER proud of micro-accomplishments. like today he did "20 dips" but his ROM is like 5 inches. i have to hold back from calling him out every time or his ego gets bruised. i doubt he can do 1 dip with a full ROM, going down deep. he doesn't even hit 90 degrees.
so yeah i bought a belt to add weight to my dips but didnt even bring it today because i knew he'd want to try it.
oh yeah and he misses days. in 7 weeks he's missed like 6 days.
:-(
he is out of shape so i let him come be my training partner.
the problem is that it never ceases to amaze me how delusional a man can be.
1) SO many fat guys think of themselves as "big guys" and don't really understand that fat and strength aren't the same thing.
2) Also totally delusional as to how fat he is. he is like 235-240. he wants to get to 190 and thinks he'll be "cut" at that weight. but he's 37 and hasn't lifted a weight since sophomore year of college. he gets 3 solid reps of 185 after we've lifted together for about 7 weeks. that's not what ripped 190 looks like. he's a 165 pound dude under there.
3) he is not careful. if i add weight to a lift he WILL immediately try to add weight, regardless of how well he performed the previous weight. he gets pissy when i refuse to let him.
4) he is SUPER proud of micro-accomplishments. like today he did "20 dips" but his ROM is like 5 inches. i have to hold back from calling him out every time or his ego gets bruised. i doubt he can do 1 dip with a full ROM, going down deep. he doesn't even hit 90 degrees.
so yeah i bought a belt to add weight to my dips but didnt even bring it today because i knew he'd want to try it.
oh yeah and he misses days. in 7 weeks he's missed like 6 days.
:-(