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Spectrum

Spectrum

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Growing a conscience ain't nothing to be ashamed of bro. I used to fuck around with girls that had boyfriends, girls that were married, etc.. I actually preferred that in a way because it meant no commitment, less time I had to invest and so on. And at least one dude who's wife I was carrying on with was not the kind of guy you want to fuck with - he'd already killed one dude and I know he was suspicious of me and his wife. Then again I used to do a lot of shit that was stupid, crazy, and fucked up.

Fact is I was an asshole then, doing a lot of dope and drinking and out of control. I like not being (as much of) an asshole :) now.
Today, I think about what if I was on the other end.

You have to do your own "inventory" brother and at the end of the day you do whats right for you. Best of luck with your choices.
 
Georgia

Georgia

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That's murder waiting to happen. I would back off and give her an ultimatum...you won't see her or talk to her as long as she's with someone else. Idgaf if she walks all over her man...she is engaged to him and you're doing him the ultimate disrespect by knowingly getting with her.

I would never touch or talk to a married, taken, or engaged woman. There are plenty of single girls out there.
 
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body_by_donuts

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I'm very proude of my merriage and I can understand someone to have feelings for another person.. but messing around with a married girl... is just messed up!
 
SuperG

SuperG

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I have been trying to stay out of this one... I am the extremely jealous type. And I get confrontational about it. In fact it's the only thing not related to my daughter that I would actually use my 250lbs to destroy someone...

If this was my girl doing this... I would disembowel you and strangle her with your intestines...

Its that bad IMO.

I punched my coworkers brother into a concussion because he wouldn't leave my girlfriend alone. My coworkers brother and my g/f worked for the same company. He would hit on her all the time. Called the guy on the phone and told him to stop doing it. He was tough on the phone. Explained to him when I see him it wont be good. Went to my coworkers house the next day to play cards and his brother was sitting on the front steps. I said are you going to get up and fight or sit and take a beating. Maybe he thought I was joking but he didn't get up so I dropped some bombs onto his melon. My g/f didn't have any more problems from him after that lol.
 
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billet5

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Feb 14, 2012
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My experience is that when you mess with a married or person in a relationship, you give away something about yourself that is tough to get back. Its all about being self serving and being self serving has no integrity. At some point, when you meet someone you truly love and want to be with, then that person cheats on you....that will bring any man to his knees. Then the constant trust issue in your own mind will be hard to forget.....making it almost impossible to have a healthy relationship. That is what you are giving to another man and most likely what you will get. At that point, you will be able to clearly see why it is wrong.
 
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May 30, 2012
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Didn't read the whole thread but... for the most part that's all I ever fucking attract ever since my first GF. I don't know if its the sexual abuse I went thru as a kid or what... or my dad involving me in his cheating affair. I'm getting older looking here lately but I used to look like my daughters brother. We were told that so many times especially at the airport when I used to have to pick up my daughter as a traveling minor. Sooo many time I would find myself sitting there listening to the woman talk to her BF or husband and she is motioning to me to be quite. To those that are about to get married I used to be their last score before they tie the knot.

Does it work out... No, never for me at least. I even married one. Took her away from a rich husband with a huge cock... so, a big cock and big money may get you women but it won't keep them. If they were scank enough to cheat on their BF/husband to be with you guess who's next in line for them to cheat on... you. Sooner or later it'll happen. I have a woman now that I started to flirt with because I was going to leave my GF. This woman is going thru a divorce and has a BF. She tells me she prides herself to never cheat BUT she's not done with the divorce yet and in fact the husband just started the divorce and it's only been 9 months total since they split.

While she's saying all this shit about not cheating when we say goodbye to each other at the start it was just a simple hug and one hell of a peck kiss. Since I told her I like wet kisses now she opens her mouth and gives me awesome wet kisses even though I have yet to open my mouth to kiss her the same way. One time she and I got into a little longer goodbye than usual, all this always happens in the gym, I let my gaurd down a little and got into it with her. I also wanted to see how far I could take the kiss (did open my wouth on this one... I couldn't take it no more) and she went with it. I was even sucking her bottom lip into my mouth. If she isn't in the first stage of cheating with me then what do you call all that? After all that I was tripping and stumbling out of the gym with a boner on it's way. I didn't expect all that.

But again... I would've liked a relationship with her at first but now... she's just like the rest of them. Here's what would happen... I'd turn my world upside down, lose a great GF just to get into a relationship with this women to just have her cheat on me the same way. When a women will give you the time of the day and go out of her way to talk to you... you can still get in her pants even though she says she will never cheat. That's the biggest line of bullshit I've ever heard... and I used to believe it.

I have quite a few good stories that I can tell... I bet my young buddy, my gym son pshnbgw8 has even more stories to tell. Women love this guy...lol
 
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RAIDEN

RAIDEN

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Dont know if you are just trying to hit it and quit it or what, but if you are thinking long term with this girl, she will do the same to you as she will do to him as far as cheating behind the back. There is no exception to the rule.
 
SAD

SAD

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Feb 3, 2011
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Hate to say this but its the truth. Nice guys finish last!!!

Wrong, unless you're talking about sex and the nice guy making sure the nice guy's awesome wife gets off first.

I can be a miserably mean asshole with a temper from hades, but when I'm with my wife or family or close friends, I am a giant teddy bear and proud to admit it.
 
SuperG

SuperG

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Jun 1, 2012
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Went out to eat with her and her mother last night. I was wishing someone would rob the joint and take me as a hostage. Its over. I would rather waste time with someone with less drama.
 
H

Hypochondriac

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May 30, 2012
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Lol... Better for you though. Meeting her mom already?
 
AXEMURDERER

AXEMURDERER

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Jan 5, 2011
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Get the fuck out while you can.

I am huge on fidelity... It is a character thing. If someone else doesn't respect it, I tend to eliminate them from my life. If my wife ever cheated on me I with another man I would bury him, and then her right by his side.
 
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