sax
Senior Member
- Jan 26, 2011
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This may not be the place people think of when it comes to relationship advice but I feel at home here and have to get something off my chest. I’ve been dating this woman for about six months and quite honestly it has been the most passionate relationship of my life. Sex 5 to 7 times a day is not unusual for us but recently that’s been dwindling.
One reason – sex that often is hard to keep up with lol. Especially when you’re 45 like me. The passion of a new relationship was the fire and I’m struggling to keep the interest. But another reason is she has stopped initiating sex and during it I feel like I am doing all the work. She’s receptive – she enjoys it – but there’s not the participation there once was.
This is making it even more difficult and this morning something happened that hasn’t happened to me in a very long time. I lost my erection in the middle of sex. I was bored shitless.
I want to hear more from the ladies but men’s advice is welcome too. Are we just passed the honeymoon phase of our relationship settling in something more normal? Or is this the beginning of the end?
One reason – sex that often is hard to keep up with lol. Especially when you’re 45 like me. The passion of a new relationship was the fire and I’m struggling to keep the interest. But another reason is she has stopped initiating sex and during it I feel like I am doing all the work. She’s receptive – she enjoys it – but there’s not the participation there once was.
This is making it even more difficult and this morning something happened that hasn’t happened to me in a very long time. I lost my erection in the middle of sex. I was bored shitless.
I want to hear more from the ladies but men’s advice is welcome too. Are we just passed the honeymoon phase of our relationship settling in something more normal? Or is this the beginning of the end?