You can't tell me that someone lean and mean, no matter what size, as long as it is symetrical, will look "horrible" to the opposite gender and/or to anybody...I've seen some of the fattest most out of shape guys, yet with clandestine personalites, hit on women in my mere 50 years of existence and to tell you the truth, most failed!!!!LOL!!!!....The guys who are in shape and with just a tad of personality will get and have got the most...Just my personal observance!...Stay in shape, iron bro's, it definitley does NOT hurt....2 cents worth here....