I use to obsess over this shit when I first started leaning out for the first time. Then I realized a lot of my energy, a huge part of my time during the day, and my life were revolving around eating, planning my next meal, preparing my meals, and eating them. As much as I enjoyed it and everything seemed to "flow" I certainly was not enjoying other aspects of my life.
Eventually what I realized was eating 4 solid meals was 10x better than trying to plan to eat every few hours, eat 6 meals, or obsess over the shit.
So I started eating the 4 solid meals and realized my nutrition increased and so did everything out in my exercise routine. I rarely missed a meal, and
I received the proper nutrition during each of these meals because I wasn't going "oh shit I ate too many carbs 4 times today already" based on a
million different portion sizes because some days I'd eat as much as every 1-2-3 hours. So it became 4 meals for me.
Generally during the week: Breakfast, early lunch (because of work), pre-dinner, dinner
Generally on the weekends: Breakfast, normal lunch (off work), dinner, before bed meal
Hope this shed a little light on an option you can possibly look at trying out?