Hey Woodwise, I sympathize with you. But I've done a bit of the opposite. I've always been quite conservative, yet didn't have much sympathy for those suffering. As I've gotten older, I see just how crazy the cycle of poverty and dysfunction is for many to escape. I certainly haven't changed my view that smaller gov't is the key for success for everyone, but instead of just wanted to stomp on a bum's nutsack, I'm more interested in coming alongside them and trying to constructively help them see a way out.
It's extremely difficult when the gov't is actively trying to keep people enslaved. I hate to say that, but at least in some instances it's true. My older brother is on the board of a charity in my community that helps ex-cons as they exit prison to find jobs, job-training, etc. to try to re-enter society productively. Very low-skill type factory work at 13-14/hour. They have difficult getting the ex-cons to enter the program because the cash and non-cash benefits they get from not working dwarf what they'll get actually working. With EBT cards, housing assistance, Obama phones, medicaid, etc. people are getting more than 13-14/hour, and then they can work a little side hustle for some cash (weed ain't cheap).
I always tell others, don't be shocked when people respond rationally to the incentives and disincentives placed in front of them. Presently, the system provides incentives to engage in a lifestyle that perpetuates dysfunction. I honestly don't think that was the intention, but that's what it's done, IMO.
You want to see someone get motivated? Once they get hungry and realize that shoplifting food is a good way of getting shot in the ass, they suddenly seem willing to apply for that job. Just three generations ago, everyone, rich and poor alike, were willing to put in a hard day's work, and would have been utterly ashamed at taking a handout.