I go through spurts, but my husband, can ALWAYS find time to get some...(except before a workout) haha and sometimes, just to piss him off, I'll ask for it right before I know we're going to the gym, just because I know he'll say no...then, later, he gets crap from me for turning me down! it's mean, I know, but I think it's hilarious!
I have to say though, since I've felt more confident about they way I look, I've been more driven for sex. He, on the other hand, is still ready all the time....just like when we were 17...