I'm 65, and have an enlarged prostrate .
I've had all the tests, in 2015, camera up the star fish , biopsy etc, all negative and innocent .
I take a prescribed 5mg Tamsolusin pill at night, and its doing the job, pee normally and all is good.
My regular blood tests show no abnormality.
I've not noticed any problems with sex, still enjoy active sex with a few girl friends .
The only thing, they don't warn you, a strong coffee at night will negate the effect of the pill, and you'll spend a lot of time pissing half a cup full at a time during the night. No coffee before bed, maybe just one long pee during the night .
Living in Spain is definitely stress free , good for me in every way, lots of cycling and Motor Cycle riding.
Maybe I'm just fortunate .