welcome to the board Kim!
this is a great place to learn, and you have taken the first step in coming here.
The thing you will find among all that are serious and even those that aren't competitors is that we do not ever HAVE time, we make it. If you have goals that are more important to you than life as you have known it then you make time.
Most of here have full-time jobs, and a lot of us also have families, and full-time school, 2nd, and 3rd jobs, etc and we still make time.
It is a shift in your idea of your schedule to make it happen.
I work full-time +++ about 60 hours a week on a light week, am doing a full remodel on a FARM, plus the 115 year old house is torn down to the studs, Plus a family, including a 7 year old, and yet I still am in the gym generally 5-6 days a week, on a bad week I will be in at least 3 times, but I drag myself there, doing my best to do it all. I am by no means a body-builder, but I have close friends that are, and their schedules closely resemble mine. Not wanting to come across as harsh, but in order to not be another new years resolution statistic you have to be able to step out of the norm and do something the majority of people aren't willing to do.