So one of my managers, a direct report to me asks me if I want to meet for a drink after work. I tell her I have too much to do and can't.
She replies with "drinking was not what she had in mind" Just a little "no strings attached fun"
LK being good does not reply.
I get a all from her about work stuff and then she asks about her message. Sorry still too busy.
Followed by some more texts:
"you sound frustrated and could use a break"
"are you Sure"
"I'm a little disappointed"
My question is not what to do, my question is should I show another manager the texts to cover my ass for whatver possible reason? I don't want to open a can of worms, nor do I want to start an issue. I just don't know if I am dealing with a class 5 stalker or crazy chick. She is great at her job and I do not want to lose her as a manager, just don't want this to somehow come back and bite me in the ass.
Yes!
I don't know how old you are bro I'm 43 and have delt with this and know that people can be assholes when they don't get what they want she could turn this into sexual harassment on you if she gets pissed enough.
I had a married women come at me hard at work and she went as far as to send her husband off 2 weeks to be with me, I ended up with her for 10 months heavy ten months.
1. I got fired weeks after we started
2. She divorce her husband and left me
She went at me hard and said shit like, oh I been wanting a real long for a long time now while she, another work and I where talking about shipping pallets and refereed to the long pallets we just got.
Before her another married women came at me even harder bro and we ended up together for 6 years with 2 kids I raised without her.
She was so pissed that I left her the things she did was unspeakable and this is a person that was married and came after me hard.
Women can suck bro when they don't get what they want or scorned.
I would show it all and then tell everyone you showed it to your going to take her up on it (only if you want to) but had to show it's not sexual harassment or you being the aggressor.
If the other way around you could end up in jail but with women your a pussy and a punk for calling out sexual harassment in societies eyes.