At the age of 45 she definitely Perimenopause . The best and only correct step is to have a total hormonal blood work including free and total test levels including DHEA that will show what is happening Anything she will do now is pointless need to know those numbers Perimenopause time is very crazy time cause of all the hormonal ups and downs and that is where all the symptoms are showing .Ok....here is the deal. My wife and I have been together since 2001, we've always had a very, very healthy sex life. When I quit cycling cold turkey a few years ago before TRT when I was simply uninterested in sex. Since TRT that's obviously changed.
My wife however has always had a healthy libedo and never done any AAS. She's 45 and isn't going thru menopause yet but she's freaking out because for some reason her libedo has gone rock bottom.
I asked her if it was me and she assumed me that's not the case and after 20 years of marriage I know when she's bullshitting me.
Can any of you ladies help shed some light on what hormonally could be the problem....or could it be psychological?
I know they make a "Viagra" for women but as a male on TRT I know PDE 5 inhibitors don't remedy sexual drive but address the Erictile dysfunction.
My wife is sitting with me now close to tears hoping some of you women can put some perspective/advice/personal experience on this issue. It's breaking my heart (not to mention my balls... Just kidding) watching her struggle.
Ask any questions you need to ask to help us solve or begin to solve this.
Thanks ladies in advance from my wife and I both.
Ok....here is the deal. My wife and I have been together since 2001, we've always had a very, very healthy sex life. When I quit cycling cold turkey a few years ago before TRT when I was simply uninterested in sex. Since TRT that's obviously changed.
My wife however has always had a healthy libedo and never done any AAS. She's 45 and isn't going thru menopause yet but she's freaking out because for some reason her libedo has gone rock bottom.
I asked her if it was me and she assumed me that's not the case and after 20 years of marriage I know when she's bullshitting me.
Can any of you ladies help shed some light on what hormonally could be the problem....or could it be psychological?
I know they make a "Viagra" for women but as a male on TRT I know PDE 5 inhibitors don't remedy sexual drive but address the Erictile dysfunction.
My wife is sitting with me now close to tears hoping some of you women can put some perspective/advice/personal experience on this issue. It's breaking my heart (not to mention my balls... Just kidding) watching her struggle.
Ask any questions you need to ask to help us solve or begin to solve this.
Thanks ladies in advance from my wife and I both.
I agree with you on the anavar until she gets her appointment, but she loved sex more than me before this, whatever, occured.Its to bad woman don't get there hormone levels checked prior to perimenopause so they know what levels will make them feel the best. Just like when men get older and there test levels drop and they start feeling like shit on all levels, the same happens to woman except at much lower levels. I bet 5-10 mg of anavar will help big time untill you can get your hormone levels checked and see what is out of wack. You should have blood drawn before you start taking anything. Its to bad that most Dr's will prescribe estrogen when that's most likely to high as it is. Not knowing what your levels were prior you'll have to do a blood test and start adjusting until you hit the magic numbers. I have no doubt it's a hormone issue, makes to much common sense to be anything else. At least your wife acknowledges there is an issue and wants to do something about it. Many woman tell there husbands 'to bad' 'deal with it' 'It's just sex' !!! I'm not taking drugs to fix a natural process of life, blah blah blah. Very frustrating...........................
you have a pmI agree with you on the anavar until she gets her appointment, but she loved sex more than me before this, whatever, occured.
She was in tears when she asked me to post this question for her.
Mid May I believe she has appointment with her OBGYN.
I'm trying to find just enough var for 3-4 weeks at 5mg e.d. but I don't think I'll find such a small amount.
I'll for sure post up her numbers when she goes in May and let everyone know what her doctor said.
Hey, I tried to send you a pm but I was not allowed. Check out a local store with the initials FD. He has what you looking for.I agree with you on the anavar until she gets her appointment, but she loved sex more than me before this, whatever, occured.
She was in tears when she asked me to post this question for her.
Mid May I believe she has appointment with her OBGYN.
I'm trying to find just enough var for 3-4 weeks at 5mg e.d. but I don't think I'll find such a small amount.
I'll for sure post up her numbers when she goes in May and let everyone know what her doctor said.
That is exactly how my wife is. "I am not taking anything. I am going to go through this naturally and we will both have to deal with it." Me, "Okay, then don't get pissed when I am blasting porn in the bathroom and jerking it multiple times a day, because my test levels are where they should be (Or a lot higher a couple times a year)."Its to bad woman don't get there hormone levels checked prior to perimenopause so they know what levels will make them feel the best. Just like when men get older and there test levels drop and they start feeling like shit on all levels, the same happens to woman except at much lower levels. I bet 5-10 mg of anavar will help big time untill you can get your hormone levels checked and see what is out of wack. You should have blood drawn before you start taking anything. Its to bad that most Dr's will prescribe estrogen when that's most likely to high as it is. Not knowing what your levels were prior you'll have to do a blood test and start adjusting until you hit the magic numbers. I have no doubt it's a hormone issue, makes to much common sense to be anything else. At least your wife acknowledges there is an issue and wants to do something about it. Many woman tell there husbands 'to bad' 'deal with it' 'It's just sex' !!! I'm not taking drugs to fix a natural process of life, blah blah blah. Very frustrating...........................
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