Turbolag
TID's Official Donut Tester
- Oct 14, 2012
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You should have walked away way before it got that far. By you letting him do all that you put out the wrong vibe..
Be straight with him. You are not in the wrong and don't let him make you feel that way !
Predators act like this and have techniques they use.
If you find yourself in this situation SHUT HIM DOWN.
Be blunt and firm without being rude so it's not awkward when you see each other in the future.
"NAMEHERE, I need to talk to you real quick. The last time we trained together you made me feel uncomfortable because you were getting too close. I appreciate the help you gave me but I prefer to train alone."
If he doesn't get the message, involve the staff at the gym.
It sounds like in this situation, a swift kick to the nuts would do the trick. You're being assaulted.
Wait wait wait. This is a grown woman not a 12 year old. She's alone at the gym with a guy who is attracted to her, discussing her body with him, and her every signal is to go on. She allows him to rub the back of her legs, her butt, around her breasts, and brush her pubic area, laughing and conversing with him all the while. She moves off camera with him without objection. He begins to take off his clothes and she offers no objection nor does she walk away. She says nothing during the encounter that would signal that she is uncomfortable, in fact her every signal is that she is enjoying herself and that he should go on. He stops immediately the moment she indicates she is uncomfortable.
I have to agree with Big White on this one.
What a difference a day makes.!Be straight with him. You are not in the wrong and don't let him make you feel that way !
Predators act like this and have techniques they use.
If you find yourself in this situation SHUT HIM DOWN.
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