when is the right time?

[rolldice]

ok so as you mau know I am getting a divorce from my wife of almost 9 years. Not what I wanted but no fix for the problme and she has changed over the last 3 months we have been seperated. We are filling in Jan and she is moving out of the house after xmas. I am currently staying at my parents until she moves out.
My question is when can I try to get back on the proverbial bike of dating? I am not looking for anything serious just someone to have fun with and hang out with when I do not have my boys.

 

[MPMC]

You dont owe anyone anything. When the divorce is settled, get on the prowl.

 

[gentao]

ok so as you mau know I am getting a divorce from my wife of almost 9 years. Not what I wanted but no fix for the problme and she has changed over the last 3 months we have been seperated. We are filling in Jan and she is moving out of the house after xmas. I am currently staying at my parents until she moves out.
My question is when can I try to get back on the proverbial bike of dating? I am not looking for anything serious just someone to have fun with and hang out with when I do not have my boys.

just get out keep yourself busy and if something catches your eye go for it. you cant plan being attracted to somebody, shit just happens

 

[ajdos]

You know RD I didnt think I would get back on the horse very fast after my divorce but I met someone right off the bat while I was going through the seperation, we dated a year and a half and ended it on good terms.
I wasnt expecting it, didnt even really want it, but when the right person comes along I just go with it.
No time limit, you will really know when your ready again, could be next week, then again could be 8 months from now...the important thing for me was to reflect on my relationship marriage, and think about the things I could have done better and work on improving them for my next relationship.
Even though my ex was a scumbag, theres always room for improvement and relationships are about learning and growing.

 

[AllTheWay]

after my divorce i had several short relationships, all that sucked. i took 2 years off from dating and just spent the time getting to know who i was again and what i liked and didnt like and spending time with the monchers. it was the best thing that i ever did! the relationship i am in now is better than any i have ever had because i was in a good place and knew what i wanted and more importantly who i was!

there is nothing wrong with being alone for awhile.

 

[Stumpy]

Go out and if you find something you like go for it but I wouldn't rush into a relationship......just stick with one night stands 'till you've gotten it outta your system.