All the boards have their own kind of politics and bullshit. Some allow any to make orders but give the sources the ability to edit their own feedback. Others make you have VIP status before you can see the sources and limit the VIPs to their own personal "boys club" but all are like this in one way or another. There are always work arounds to find the good ones. For instance I'm a member of one of those VIP only boards but because of board politics I cant directly see the sources. No worries, a little asking around and poof, magically all sources and emails. Your best bet is to ask around a bit more. As for the viagra, why not just get the real thing from over seas? Pharm grade and dirt cheap.
As for OLM I was banned from there around 13 times. These days I still have an active account there but only log in when I need a laugh. I normally have multiple accounts on just about all the forums.