Need a new router

[Dex]

is it a 2.4 or 5gz connection? My router can run both

 

[JackD]

Get the Belkin N wireless router. I have comcast modem, and n wireless, everyone can be on and streaming movies with no issues.

http://www.belkin.com/us/F9K1103/p/P-F9K1103/

 

[Winson]

Cisco and Zyxel will probably be an ideal choice in your case.

 

[MorganKane]

pfSense.
Its a real firewall.
You can even install snort or suricata.
You can set it up with OpenVPN for your own incoming connections and you can use OpenVPN to privateinternetaccess.com
Its open source. Does not require that much of hardware.
My box is really nice and it cost me less then 300 bucks. But an old PC with two nics will do fine.
Use an external access point like Egenius.

You have a real firewall with tons of features and its secure.

 

[StrongLyfe]

anything you can bandwidth throttle. Give the crumb crunchers 56kbs and yourself the rest of the pipe!

The Cisco/Linksys ones do this quite well

 

[FlyingDragon]

MW will even help install the unit for you, especially if its in one of the kids bedrooms.....

 

[pumpingiron22]

you can buy or set up router that direct right on to tor.