dangerouscurves
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- May 25, 2011
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At her age I was having sex, I think parents often overestimate the innocence of their children. Looking innocent and being innocent are 2 different things but then you look at the culture, people "baby proof" when I was a kid baby proofing was a spanking. Don't get me wrong I would not be comfortable to put my daughter on stage like that (and you can easily tell this girl is 13-14 years old) but the everyday life of a teen is filled with the sexual innuendo it's hard to pinpoint this as harmful...better keep her away from boys her age and the beach if we want to avoid the sexual aspects of a teens life.
Would I allow my kid to do it no, but we'd need to have the same standards for boys as well.
I so agree with this,
And there are predators everywhere, and the most dangerous are the ones her own age imo, having gone through a trauma at 14( and I was fat and not developed like this girl) and rebeling against men from there, my sexuality began when I was 5-6 and scared to say anything...
I can only hope this girl and her parents view her as an athlete, the dedication it took to get her to this point could be what is keeping her from the normal predators, and I truly cannot fault her parents for supporting her if this is what she wanted to do, not supporting her would be an easy way to shut the lines of communication at a critical time to have them there, and she could have rebelled and gone and been susceptible to so much worse.
Further I cannot fault a 14year old for going after a goal, and doing so well, noone thinks anything of it when seeing a young teen pop star, runway model, gymnast etc and wanting fame like that when that's success to her age group..
And like I said before I would not want my daughter doing this, but if it were her passion I would support her nonetheless