Seira_1337
TID Lady Member
- Jul 15, 2014
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My husband is supportive in my weight loss efforts, but seems to be turned off by my desire to get built. I personally don't think scrawny is attractive and I naturally have a more athletic build prone to bulking. (Even at my all time lowest pole dance competition weight of 130 lbs, I didnt look "skinny") No amount of starvation diet and exercise has ever yielded a "fashion model" body for me. I am also pretty sure he would be freaked out by me using peptides or other injectables. This is a journey I want to ultimately do for myself, but I also feel having a partners support and transparency/communication/honesty is important.
Where do you draw the line with following your dreams versus compromising with the person you care about? How do you convince someone that strong is sexy in a world obsessed with scrawny? Or do you just say F* it, this is who I am?
Where do you draw the line with following your dreams versus compromising with the person you care about? How do you convince someone that strong is sexy in a world obsessed with scrawny? Or do you just say F* it, this is who I am?