JR Ewing
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- Nov 9, 2012
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Good point. Many believe the false notion that homosexuals are pedos and vice versa. There are many pedos who are strictly attracted to the opposite sex. Pedophilia is a pathology and generally a crime (rightfully so).
Many people have a similar misunderstanding about rape, thinking it's simply about sex - they'll say that "so and so could have any woman he wants - he doesn't HAVE to rape!". They're ignorant to the fact that rape is an act of violence and about power, control, humiliation, etc. Sex is just the tool to accomplish this.
I'm all for government butting out of what any consenting adults want to do in private, and I think gays should be allowed to marry if they wish.
Many people have a similar misunderstanding about rape, thinking it's simply about sex - they'll say that "so and so could have any woman he wants - he doesn't HAVE to rape!". They're ignorant to the fact that rape is an act of violence and about power, control, humiliation, etc. Sex is just the tool to accomplish this.
I'm all for government butting out of what any consenting adults want to do in private, and I think gays should be allowed to marry if they wish.
This type of thinking is based on fear, not on reality.
The fear is gays are deviant and likely to molest children. But there have been many scientific studies done, showing people self identifying as gay are no more likely to molest children than are people self identifying as straight.
Child abuse (from what I can tell) is motivated by much different emotions than homosexuality. I think it is motivated by a need to be a predator of innocent, helpless children, for selfish purposes -- to dominate them and to hurt them. Truly sickening stuff IMO.
Homosexuality, on the other hand, is not about being a predator, but about being with someone like yourself, someone you can relate to. In my opinion it is the opposite of predatory.