silntrunin
MuscleHead
- Aug 30, 2011
- 759
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One of the toughest things I've ever had to do, was give my son 30 days to get out of our house.
It was way overdue but I just couldn't get myself to do it. Actually I probably should have told him to get out now but I just can't throw my son out on the streets. He's 20 and he should be able to take care of himself but I'm not so sure he can, especially if he has nowhere to stay.
Everyone tells me "just throw him out" but its a hard thing for a me to do, so I gave him some time to either check himself into rehab or get out. I'm hoping he makes the right choice but he doesn't have a good track record as far as making good decisions for himself. If after 30 days I have to throw him out, then at least I will be able to live with myself knowing that I gave him a choice.
Right or wrong I'm really not sure anymore. But what I do know is that just doing the same thing and expecting different results is insanity. Hopefully I made the right decision. [-O<
It was way overdue but I just couldn't get myself to do it. Actually I probably should have told him to get out now but I just can't throw my son out on the streets. He's 20 and he should be able to take care of himself but I'm not so sure he can, especially if he has nowhere to stay.
Everyone tells me "just throw him out" but its a hard thing for a me to do, so I gave him some time to either check himself into rehab or get out. I'm hoping he makes the right choice but he doesn't have a good track record as far as making good decisions for himself. If after 30 days I have to throw him out, then at least I will be able to live with myself knowing that I gave him a choice.
Right or wrong I'm really not sure anymore. But what I do know is that just doing the same thing and expecting different results is insanity. Hopefully I made the right decision. [-O<