May 21, 2015 What is the general consensus, maybe this is not the right place to ask this question since its fitness board. Do u like your man to have muscles, pro big, defined and fit, bulky foot ball player, or non or normal looking guy. I have seem quite a few very attractive ladies, who look like they are into fitness, but have partners who look like average joes. Some are even over weight and ugly. So what's your preference and why...?