does you significant other know

[Bigtex]

I have been using for 43 years now. My wife has been using for just about as long. Makes it really as easy. As for cheating, get it all out of you before you ever think about getting married.

 

[searay]

Not counting Rx trt. Does you significant other know about your usage?
Mine only knows trt, she knew in the past I used when I was with her. Been together 26yrs we will not see eye to eye on this subject ever. Funny though when I started trt no issues whatsoever, when I mention adding to it she looses her shit.
To be fair I did cheat ALOT when I was younger and happen to be using, so she may associate the 2. I will say after having a kid my compulsion to cheat went in the negatives. Don't know if it is because more to loose or what. Although if more to loose was the biggest factor in theory I would not use AAS since that could be prison and divorce. Or unwilling to compromise on this 1 thing. No, that doesn't make sense because the risk is greater than cheating. Maybe more to loose is not the biggest factor. Hummm

Why do u cheat? Not getting everything you want/need at home? If thats the case why dont you tell her and if things dont improve move on. Why be sitting on the fence ? Lifes to short.

 

[Thrawn]

Why do u cheat? Not getting everything you want/need at home? If thats the case why dont you tell her and if things dont improve move on. Why be sitting on the fence ? Lifes to short.

I don't, at least haven't in 14yrs. I was rambling about a correlation perception. Why did I cheat? Well that might be to much, unless you really want to read my babbling. I have no problem sharing.

 

[Anita Blumpkin]

Not counting Rx trt. Does you significant other know about your usage?
Mine only knows trt, she knew in the past I used when I was with her. Been together 26yrs we will not see eye to eye on this subject ever. Funny though when I started trt no issues whatsoever, when I mention adding to it she looses her shit.
To be fair I did cheat ALOT when I was younger and happen to be using, so she may associate the 2. I will say after having a kid my compulsion to cheat went in the negatives. Don't know if it is because more to loose or what. Although if more to loose was the biggest factor in theory I would not use AAS since that could be prison and divorce. Or unwilling to compromise on this 1 thing. No, that doesn't make sense because the risk is greater than cheating. Maybe more to loose is not the biggest factor. Hummm

I gotta make another comment after reading everyone's replies.
Woman are no different than men. Theirs far fewer kind, respectful woman than ones that will always choose the easy way instead of the hard way that takes sacrifice and hard work.
It's not woman or men it's humans lol people!! If you don't have the grit to fight for yourself, you don't have the grit to fight for your partner. If you can't be honest with yourself you can't be honest with your partner. This varies in levels of sacrifice and selfish actions and thoughts but in general its true for most people.
I have an excellent relationship because we never take the easy way out we do the work and try our utmost to treat eachother with genuine kindness and respect.
If your not happy with someone. Staying with them is the easy road, leaving is the hard work. If you are truly committed to your relationship then staying is the hard work. Hahaha little opposite but it's the truth and I've experienced both. Food for thought.
One out of all these comments sounded positive, the rest sounded chaotic. Sit and think about what's actually best. Be kind and don't take the easy way out.

 

[The other Snake]

Wife only knows about the TRT. I'm dedicated enough throughout the year with my training that I don't shrink or blow-up much. I just look a little better in the summer.

 

[Thrawn]

I gotta make another comment after reading everyone's replies.
Woman are no different than men. Theirs far fewer kind, respectful woman than ones that will always choose the easy way instead of the hard way that takes sacrifice and hard work.
It's not woman or men it's humans lol people!! If you don't have the grit to fight for yourself, you don't have the grit to fight for your partner. If you can't be honest with yourself you can't be honest with your partner. This varies in levels of sacrifice and selfish actions and thoughts but in general its true for most people.
I have an excellent relationship because we never take the easy way out we do the work and try our utmost to treat eachother with genuine kindness and respect.
If your not happy with someone. Staying with them is the easy road, leaving is the hard work. If you are truly committed to your relationship then staying is the hard work. Hahaha little opposite but it's the truth and I've experienced both. Food for thought.
One out of all these comments sounded positive, the rest sounded chaotic. Sit and think about what's actually best. Be kind and don't take the easy way out.

You make good points. What would you do if you partner gave you an ultimatum, him or gear? Honestly that's what some would say. If a person is married with kids, then what? now if you choose gear there is ammo against you that will be used.
This part is not an attack it is trying to find root .
Let's back up are we telling/not telling our significant other because it's illegal or because it's a drug?
Why or why not do we have an obligation to tell?
If people know and don't turn you in there may be grounds for conspiracy charges. So are we protecting them?
What do you do if you provide overwhelming evidence that goes against their perception and they ignore it?

 

[beefnewton]

Not really sure how I'm supposed to take that. If the relationship has blown up in spectacular fashion, and my ex chooses to go to the police to stir shit up, how "positive" is that event? Not every relationship is as perfect as yours. Nor is it always the man's fault.

 

[Anita Blumpkin]

You make good points. What would you do if you partner gave you an ultimatum, him or gear? Honestly that's what some would say. If a person is married with kids, then what? now if you choose gear there is ammo against you that will be used.
This part is not an attack it is trying to find root .
Let's back up are we telling/not telling our significant other because it's illegal or because it's a drug?
Why or why not do we have an obligation to tell?
If people know and don't turn you in there may be grounds for conspiracy charges. So are we protecting them?
What do you do if you provide overwhelming evidence that goes against their perception and they ignore it?

Well I'm not sure how serious AAS use is in other countries but here in Canada it's only illegal to sell it. Using is probably still illegal but not sure you would face charges.
If my partner gave me an ultimatum then that would be very easy for me. Any ultimatum offered in my mind means they need to feel in control of me to some level. That's a relationship I don't want to be a part of. So I would end that relationship.

 

[Thrawn]

Not really sure how I'm supposed to take that. If the relationship has blown up in spectacular fashion, and my ex chooses to go to the police to stir shit up, how "positive" is that event? Not every relationship is as perfect as yours. Nor is it always the man's fault.

It's always the man's fault! Don't you believe in feminist movement.
While in theory a persons accusations are not grounds for a warrant but, lots of instances of claiming a controlled buy from an informant, now they have their warrant. I promise you that happens way more than people think.

 

[Thrawn]

Well I'm not sure how serious AAS use is in other countries but here in Canada it's only illegal to sell it. Using is probably still illegal but not sure you would face charges.
If my partner gave me an ultimatum then that would be very easy for me. Any ultimatum offered in my mind means they need to feel in control of me to some level. That's a relationship I don't want to be a part of. So I would end that relationship.

If a felony here, and since we tend to buy all gear before we start it could very bad.
When you're not married and share assets walking away is a lot easier to do.

 

[Anita Blumpkin]

It's always the man's fault! Don't you believe in feminist movement.
While in theory a persons accusations are not grounds for a warrant but, lots of instances of claiming a controlled buy from an informant, now they have their warrant. I promise you that happens way more than people think.

I don't agree or disagree with any "movement" we all have assholes and we all have a voice. Less judgement more consideration. There's no easy answer for anything on this planet anymore.

 

[Anita Blumpkin]

If a felony here, and since we tend to buy all gear before we start it could very bad.
When you're not married and share assets walking away is a lot easier to do.

Ya that sounds like a whole other bag of slugs man. Government and laws are sometimes heavier then a bad relationship.