A few have been focusing on the part you don't like, and some on the parts you do like. It's become very much like when political discussion turns into something uglier, esp. in the last few yrs . . . no one changes anyone's mind, nothing good is accomplished, and newfound hatred abounds.
TID has not always been like this, hang in there, we may get back on our own, or we may require some increased adult attention like LK's above, but we'll get there.