Small world! Sometimes that shit blows my mind. Like when you run into someone you went to high school with when you’re on vacation or visiting relatives in another state. So weird.I look like a dago, despite being Irish and a 1/4 Polish. My 23 and Me came back 78% British Isles (Irish) and 22% Eastern European (Polish) even had my Polish DNA narrowed down to Zakopane Region which is the site of a mountain where my surname comes from. I have met some of my dad's cousins (online) and a buddy from work turned out to be my 2nd cousin IRL.
Honestly brother, I wish I DID have some idea who my parents were/are and if I have any siblings, I watch movies sometimes and wonder what it would have been like to have a real and steady family.What I would encourage most of you to do, especially those who are not interested in this stuff, or care much about it, is to at least try and gather what you can find for your kids, who may be interested in it at some point. My reasoning for this is because every generation that passes by and dies, is a book of information that is gone...even if the were POS's. Find out what you can now, especially from the oldest members of the family because once they are gone, stories and 'word of mouth' goes with them, unless they recorded it down on paper. It may not mean much to you personally, but future generations in the family will thank you greatly for it.
There are pieces, some large, that I was able to gather from family, who are now deceased, that if i never got that information from them, there is no way in heck i would have ever found it researching...well, anything.
Find out as many names as you can, what they did as their professions, any wars or military they served in, where they lived, spouses, kids names (both living and deceased), and family stories they remember.
If you can find old pictures, or any for that matter, name and date them on the back. If any family passes away, make sure their pictures and documents stay in the family, or to you, and not in the trash can.
Well, if I were your parents, i'd be super excited to meet and reconnect with you, and i'd be even more honored and proud to have you as my son. You have done very well for yourself, and you served the country...and outside of breaking most of the bones in your body body, like 10x each, hahaha....you are killin' it man. You are an honorable man with high integrity.Honestly brother, I wish I DID have some idea who my parents were/are and if I have any siblings, I watch movies sometimes and wonder what it would have been like to have a real and steady family.
The Waltons type of thing looks awesome,,, hahah but WTF wasn't for me I guess.
Well, if I were your parents, i'd be super excited to meet and reconnect with you, and i'd be even more honored and proud to have you as my son. You have done very well for yourself, and you served the country...and outside of breaking most of the bones in your body body, like 10x each, hahaha....you are killin' it man. You are an honorable man with high integrity.
@jipped genes was adopted too, just like you. He did the Ancestry dot com DNA testing, and he found his maternal mother, a couple brothers, and I think a sister....probably some cousins too I imagine?
You could always send in a sample and see what comes up. Even if you do not ever meet them, or want to follow suit with pursuing them, just learning about your blood relatives and their history would be interesting. There is also the chance they are no longer living, but you may have brothers and sisters who could be super thrilled to know they have a brother, a kickass one like yourself. Maybe they wish the same as you do? I'd use Ancestry, they have the largest database, and you do not have to get a subscription from them to have a tree. A subscription just offers you documents to look and read over. Their DNA is kind of separate, and matches will come up if other members of the family have done it as well.
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Brought a tear to my eye brother, Thank you!Well, if I were your parents, i'd be super excited to meet and reconnect with you, and i'd be even more honored and proud to have you as my son. You have done very well for yourself, and you served the country...and outside of breaking most of the bones in your body body, like 10x each, hahaha....you are killin' it man. You are an honorable man with high integrity.
@jipped genes was adopted too, just like you. He did the Ancestry dot com DNA testing, and he found his maternal mother, a couple brothers, and I think a sister....probably some cousins too I imagine?
You could always send in a sample and see what comes up. Even if you do not ever meet them, or want to follow suit with pursuing them, just learning about your blood relatives and their history would be interesting. There is also the chance they are no longer living, but you may have brothers and sisters who could be super thrilled to know they have a brother, a kickass one like yourself. Maybe they wish the same as you do? I'd use Ancestry, they have the largest database, and you do not have to get a subscription from them to have a tree. A subscription just offers you documents to look and read over. Their DNA is kind of separate, and matches will come up if other members of the family have done it as well.
Do it man!![]()
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