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chestrockwell420

chestrockwell420

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Oct 9, 2012
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well i just came out of a seven year relationship. moved out of the house last saturday. she just couldnt handle me being gone out of town for work. we split up once about a year ago and been trying ever since, seems like more me than her trying, but you guys know how that goes. i was pretty beat up last time we split, felt lost, unimportant, etc. im doing ok this round. i knew things were getting bad and i knew i wasnt going to give up my carreer. if she had been patient, i wouldnt do this work forever. i do miss the 14 yr old step daughter, the only kid i ever knew and raised. i couldnt make momma happy, so i let her go. she deserves to find that happiness. and so do i. now its work and fitness to keep me going in life.....a few 20 year olds this week also helped out a little! party on!
 
RAIDEN

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Sorry to hear that man. It can be tough and hard at times especially in the early stage after you just broke up, but you will be just fine. Keep your head up bro.
 
FLBB89

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making money and building wealth should always be your #1 priority. Everything else is just a distraction.
 
FLEXjs

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a few 20 year olds this week also helped out a little! party on!

A little man whoring doesn't hurt in this situation. Sorry though.

Speaking from personal experience; when you find someone that appreciates what you do and supports you in your goals rather than being selfish and focusing on their own needs/wants you will be much happier.

Good luck.
 
Turbolag

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Man I'm sorry to hear Chest.

We're all here for you though.
 
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Realize

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well i just came out of a seven year relationship. moved out of the house last saturday. she just couldnt handle me being gone out of town for work. we split up once about a year ago and been trying ever since, seems like more me than her trying, but you guys know how that goes. i was pretty beat up last time we split, felt lost, unimportant, etc. im doing ok this round. i knew things were getting bad and i knew i wasnt going to give up my carreer. if she had been patient, i wouldnt do this work forever. i do miss the 14 yr old step daughter, the only kid i ever knew and raised. i couldnt make momma happy, so i let her go. she deserves to find that happiness. and so do i. now its work and fitness to keep me going in life.....a few 20 year olds this week also helped out a little! party on!

I went through almost the exact same thing. 7 year relationship, her 2 kids I treated like my own.
I work 75 hours a week but I told her to have my back and it will pay off in the long run. She knew what she was signing up for but couldn't handle it.
 
tommyguns2

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Sorry to hear about your situation. Hang in there!
 

Jenner

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Very sorry to hear this :( But you do seem to be ok with it :)

Unfortunately people choose different things, it's better that you go your separate ways as you both deserve to be happy.
 
chestrockwell420

chestrockwell420

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thanks friends, like i did say im ok with it this time. cant keep trying and not getting anywhere....plenty out there who like me for being me! glad to have my job and rediscovered my circle of friends, no limits on my supps, so bring summer on!
 
Dex

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making money and building wealth should always be your #1 priority. Everything else is just a distraction.

Building wealth with the support of a strong woman is even better
 
shortz

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Very sorry to hear this man. Travel is really hard on the family life. At least you kind of saw it coming and you are a little more mentally prepared.

What scares me the most about traveling a lot for work is the amount of couples that end up having affairs. I never want to travel, nor would I want my wife to. Time apart from each other and the kids is just too hard on us all.
 
JackD

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Sorry to hear this, but I can tell you that you will be okay. What you probably don't see is how much this will be a blessing to you. If the person you are with does not appreciate you and what you like to do, then it won't ever work, there will always be tension and fights. If you felt you were the one doing all the trying, then I can tell you, you probably were, and in that case, why waste anymore time with someone that doesn't appreciate you the same way, another woman will. So just take it one day at a time. I can tell you that you will be fine though.
 
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